the truth about BIG life changes

 

Listen up Peeps-

Here's the truth about BIG life changes: 

Some people won't come with you

& That’s Okay!

Whether it was a couple of days or years -  cherish the time they stood at your side They helped shape you into the person you are today whether it was by negative or positive effect.

You need to understand some people are made to play small roles in your adventure and that is all. Your big events will sieve those people out a little at a time - yes it will be devastating, and yes you will be ok. But unfortunately this cannot be prevented.

I have recently went through this. Me + Huge Event  = a friend loss. This is why I hate equations. I am still alive. How?

Like any good reader I craved the perfect ending. So I refused to leave things unsaid and was honest. I called them out, I listened to their side and I moved on, drawing their attention that the situation may cause our friendship to go sour and I would not allow that.

Each problem has many solutions, the tricky part is picking one we are happy to use and not feel an ounce of guilt when we deliver it.

So from my six years of being in the 'big bad world' I have came up with three simple steps that allow me to live to my full potential;

1) Always GO after what you want, otherwise you will never have it.

2) Always ASK , otherwise the answer will always be NO.

3) Take the step FORWARD, otherwise you be ALWAYS be in the same place.

Simple. Right?

Wrong!

It is only simple if you do not make excuses for yourself.

& that is going to be hard, especially with the world we live in to do with so many direct/indirect social and media pressures.

So go easy on yourself, and fly when YOU are ready.

Really think about what you truly want.

& remember; 

The PAST is there to TEACH , the FUTURE is their as a GUIDE, the PRESENT is a gift for NOW.

So go and live your life how you want!

Screw anyone else!

You will gain and loose people all your life.